Tuesday, 21 December 2010

That 'ONE' Person

I thought hard to give this post the best start that I could give. Thought of all the high fandu big words and adjectives I knew. Searched my brain with all the vocab I know of. I would be talking of a very important person in this article. And so I pondered on all the ways to make a best possible start. Soon I realised that no words can make it possible. Words are never enough to describe the best possible feeling and the best possible person. At least I am not capable of doing so. So this is how I start and I will go about telling you what I actually mean when I talk about that 'one' person in our life.

We all have one such person who brings out the best within us. Who is the actual reason for us being what we are today. This special person may be in different roles for each one of us.Some have this person as idols they follow, some parents and for most its the person they love. For most of us, this person is the one we look up to whenever we are down. They come in our life when we are down and depressed. When we have been bruised in the battle of life. That one person comes and picks us up back, helps us stand on our own feet, helps us get back our lost confidence and charm and makes us what we are today. And they accept us as we are. People say everybody changes with time. But when that change is to reciprocate the unconditional love and care we receive, its all fair and such changes are never felt as a burden.

Life has never been fair and will never be. Its the same with people around. If you say you just like everybody around then either you are lying or you really do not care about anyone. With scorpions that is not the case. We have a strong sense of likes and dislikes. At times when we do not see many people around who can be liked, this one person is enough. That one person understand the unspoken words, knows the hidden feelings and is aware of the true meaning behind the words. Life would have been really difficult in the absence of that one person. We do not have to pose or be formal in front of them. We do not have to mince words in front of them. We can be our true self which has become so difficult to be these days. And that one person still loves us, cares for us and is there for us.

It is this one person whom you think of whenever you are sad. And it is this one person you are free to talk anything that you want. We have many songs that go on and on about such people in our life but I like a few lines which I would like to quote from a old bollywood song from the movie Junglee.

"Tumne mujhko hasna sikhaya,
Rone kahoge ro lenge ab.
Aansoo ke humare gum na karo,
wo behte hai toh behne do.
mujhe tumse mohabbat ho gayi hai,
mujhe palko ki chav main rehne do"
"Chahe bana do, chahe mita do,
Mar bhi gaye toh denge duyaein."

For those who are not good with Hindi, use google translator.

So guys and girls, as soon as you read this think of that one person in your life who gives you the comfort of being loved in this world and go and tell that person that you love them and that they are special in your life. Do not wait for an occasion to say it. Cause I am sure if not for that 'one' person in your life, life would have been more difficult than it is now. And those who feel you still do not have that one person in your life yet, maybe the time has not yet come when you need them the most.

 And for those who feel I have still not been able to justify the importance of that one person. Blame it on my inability to do so.



  1. Good 'ONE' dude. I am impressed with your ability to write such a nice blogs.
    BTW.. could you please pass on the English meaning of the song ?. I could not translate it with Google.

  2. Thats was a nice thing to read and get back memories of that 1 special person....in my case u all know him...

  3. ahem!

    The person who makes you cry is the only person who can make you smile again...hai na?

  4. @ Mohan - Thanks. It simply means 'You are the person who taught me how to smile, so when you tell me to cry, il do that happily.You don be sad if i am crying.I am in love with you and would like to stay with you always.'

    @uma - yes, u r right.

  5. i think this will by far be my fav post.. assume u were in a very good mood on this particular day..

  6. This is just so lovely post!
    Made me smile instantly!:)
    Just loved reading it!


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