Love is all about YOU

From Political dramas to comparing cities, from all the negativities to LOVE. Definitely this topic would have surprised you all, but LOVE is the flavor of the season. After all it’s Valentine’s Day in a couple of days. This day is really important cause no matter how much you love your partner, missing out to wish them on this day would surely raise a question mark on your love. So no matter how much you gift them the whole year, a gift on this day is must. Sounds crazy to me and I know you will hate me for it .

Anyways I guess I got diverted as I do not wish to speak on Valentine’s Day but LOVE. It is such a strong feeling which we tend to use so casually and immaturely. Guys in their teens see a girl and fall in love without knowing their names. And I am sure most of you would agree that its stupid. I believe you cannot love somebody without knowing that person completely with both the right and wrong of the person. But this is not what love is all about. its not just knowing each other but a far more than that.

Love surely is Respect. You cannot love a person you do not respect. So love definitely is not just we not insulting the person but also unable to bear if someone else does so. But this is some feeling that I see so uncommon in today’s love affairs. We bitch n crib about our partners to others and thus costing them the respect people should have for them. I would certainly not only avoid speaking ill about my love to someone but would also stop if somebody tries to do so. Love is all about You and your respect.

Love surely is sacrifice and giving. Something which is again so uncommon. We, in this fight for survival, have somehow become so self centered that we tend to forget Love is all about giving. Its about your happiness. They say if your LOVE is not happy with you, just let them free and they will surely be back and if they are not that means they truly are happy without you and if you really love them, let them be happy. No it doesn’t mean we all should try this out but its an extent to which we can go. But we are so fond of ourselves and so used to fighting for our rights that we forget that Love is a privilege and not a right to fight for.

Love is something above our ego. Love is something above our adamancy. Love is something which is pure. Love is something that is sacred. And please do not feel I am writing this after watching a couple of romantic bollywood films. it’s just in the air.lol. Let’s get back to business and philosophy.

And this Valentine’s Day may we all pledge to make the lives of the people we love better. May we realize what true love is. May we strike a balance between bollywood films and true life . And we remember that LOVE is all about YOU. It never was and will never be about me or us. Its jus YOU.

Happy Valentine’s Day to the people I love and to the people in love.

Cheers!

PS: Please comment if this post was super-boring or otherwise.